Do You Have a Road Not Taken?

In organizations today we invest quite a bit of money and time into studying best practices. We try to replicate proven practices that generate success. We then train everyone to follow these practices. While this works in situations that have similar business conditions, it can be a very ineffective strategy in situations that require unique, customized solutions.

Successful managers are good at managing repetitive practices that yield standard results. Successful leaders are good at helping people solve unique problems with unusual, non-standard solutions. To learn this, leaders need to often take “roads less travelled.”

The Road Not Taken. This past weekend I was honored to attend a wonderful memorial service for a very accomplished gentleman I knew through my church. His favorite poem, which we read as a responsive reading, was The Road Not Taken by Robert Frost (see poem below). When this is read at a memorial service or other ceremony people often misunderstand Frost’s message. (That wouldn’t be said for my friend, he knew the message very well.) But many people assume Frost means that the person telling the story in the poem took the “road less traveled” and had a more fulfilling walk or life. Actually, the poem is about regrets – he regrets not taking the road less travelled. How many of us, when faced with a decision, take the easy, well-trodden route and then regret it later?

Carpe Diem. In the movie Dead Poets Society a teacher named John Keating, played by Robin Williams, delivers this legendary line to a group of male students,"Carpe diem. Seize the day, boys. Make your lives extraordinary." Keating inspired the boys when he quoted Herrick, who wrote these opening lines in a poem, “Gather ye rosebuds while ye may, Old Time is still a-flying: And this same flower that smiles to-day, To-morrow will be dying.” In the movie Keating encouraged the boys to explore, to put themselves into difficult situations so they could learn, to make their lives mean something, and to do something right NOW because every day might be their last.

Suggestions for Taking a Different Road. A large percentage of our day as workers, managers and leaders is pretty routine, so we fall into a routine ourself. It’s natural. We’re like the moon in orbit around earth – we rise, we set, and we predictably change our phase during our normal business cycle. This routine, if not nudged out of orbit, becomes complacency. Complacency doesn’t teach us how to take a different road – just the opposite. Here are five things you can do to learn to take a different road:

  1. Recognize when a problem is repeating itself. Solving it the same way will likely mean it will repeat itself. Try a different solution.
  2. When you hear or think a “killer phrase”, see the situation as an opportunity to take a different road. Here are a few good “killer phrases” from Chic Thompson
    • a. Yes, but
    • b. We’ve always done it this way
    • c. It will be more trouble than it’s worth
    • d. We haven’t got the manpower
    • e. It’ll never fly
  3. Practice using intuition and reason when solving problems. Albert Einstein once said, “No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it.” For many challenges, our intuition knows the best course, but we don’t listen because we let reason win out. Intuition needs to be developed and, when combined with reason, can lead you to new places. There are many intuition exercises on the Internet – explore them until you find one or two that work best for you.
  4. Interrupt at least one routine task each day; change your approach to problem-solving regularly. Routine interruptions could be as simple as eating something different for breakfast, walking a different route at lunch, or re-writing that standard e-mail you send every Tuesday. Changing your approach to problem-solving could include regularly involving different people, asking questions that provoke different thinking, and visiting other businesses or offices to obtain different view points.
  5. Start a “Bucket List” and start doing things on the list. Try to use one of these experiences to give you new insight into solving a challenging problem.

Effective leaders have no regrets and often take the road less travelled. Will you?

 

The Road Not Taken
By Robert Frost

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,

I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.

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May 23, 2012
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