If you played sports, I want you to think back to the best coach or coaches you ever had. If you didn’t play sports, think about the best manager you have had or have now.

I’ll wait a minute – do it, I’m serious.Coaching football

Now, what was “it” they did that made you remember them?

My “Mad Dog’ Coach I Remember. The one coach that stands-out for me was my high school football coach in Middletown, RI, the late Joseph “Joe” Magliocco, who we players referred to affectionately as “Mad Dog.” I was a military kid and my sister and I had to move schools every two years, which was hard. It was especially hard for me because as soon as I established my “athlete” self in one school, I had to switch to a new school. I had to prove myself all over again.

I was a new kid on this Middletown team in my senior year. In the middle of our August double-sessions Coach Mformations for football gameagliocco took me aside and said something like, “I think you have a great deal of talent and may be the smartest player out here. I like how you apply quickly what we tell you. If you want to stay after practice I would like to have you meet with coach Chantre, one-on-one, and learn how to read the opponents’ formations – your talent will really help our team. Would you like to do that?”

Of course, I’m sure the words were not exactly these, but they were close. Notice how I remember them to this day – 48 years later. I later made the Class-B All-State football team and this would never have happened without Coach Magliocco’s confidence in me.

Four Types of Coaches – One is Most Effective. I thought about Coach Magliocco and why he made an impact on me when I read this May-June 2018 HBR article called Managers Can’t be Great Coaches by Themselves. According to extensive research by Gartner Consulting on effective coaching most of us use one of four coaching styles – and one style is much more effective than others.

Here are the four styles in order of most common to least common:

  1. Cheerleader Managers – These managers take a hands-off approach, give positive feedback, and let employees figure-out their own development.
  2. Always-on Managers – These managers provide continual coaching, constant feedback, and stay on-top of how each person is developing. The researchers noted that this style is often the preferred style that HR professionals “idealize.” Some of these managers are motivated to be so involved because each person’s development is a reflection of the manager.
  3. Connector Managers – These managers give targeted feedback on skills they themselves have mastered; otherwise they connect people to others who have greater expertise. These managers spend more time than other managers assessing everyone and finding the best resources to help them. Their egos allow them to look for more qualified people to provide the training.
  4. Teacher Managers – These managers coach people based on their own expertise and experience and use more of an “advice-oriented” style to coach people. Many of these types of managers started as technical experts and were promoted into a manager role.

The research notes that an “Always-On Manager” is likely doing more harm than good. One reason is there is no correlation between time invested in coaching and outcomes. In fact, it appears the more time you coach, the weaker the performance may become. Too much feedback can be overwhelming to the individual and detrimental. Also, these managers may over-estimate their own skills and the employees are not trained by the real experts – and those employees know the difference.

The ConnectorsFinally, though, I was intrigued to learn from the research that people developed by Connector Managers were three times as likely to become high performers as people coached by any of the other manager-coaches.

If you want to become a Connector Manager, according to Jaime Roca, one of the people leading the study, think about this –

“Being a Connector is more about asking the right questions, providing tailored feedback, and helping employees make a connection to a colleague who can help them. The most difficult part is often self-knowledge and candor: Being a Connector requires a manager to recognize that s/he is not qualified to teach a certain skill and to admit that deficiency to a subordinate. That isn’t something that comes naturally.”

I see now that Coach Magliocco used many of techniques of a Connector Manager-Coach and that style more naturally communicates a “what’s in this for me” developmental strategy, while the other styles may incidentally communicate a “what’s in this for the manager” strategy.

In my next article, I will explore two related topics – why “negative feedback” is not going to work in the current work environment and how you can ask questions and be a better Connector Manager-Coach.

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By |2018-08-16T10:23:22+00:00August 16th, 2018|Credibility & Inspiration, Team Leadership / Teamwork, Teams & Culture|

About the Author:

Steve Wood
Steve Wood is the President and Chief Executive Officer (CEO) Work Opportunities Unlimited Inc. In addition, Steve provides strategic planning and organizational development consulting services to clients. Prior to joining the company, Steve spent 17 years in the banking industry where he was promoted to Senior Vice President and Senior Commercial Loan Officer. He consulted with entrepreneurs and managers in the areas of strategic planning and organizational development at a range of businesses throughout New England. Steve has been a member of the adjunct faculty team at Southern New Hampshire University since 1994 (SNHU). He teaches Leadership and Managing Organizational Change regularly at both the graduate and undergraduate level and periodically teaches Strategic Management, Finance, Entrepreneurship, and other management courses. He also served on the University’s Strategic Planning Steering Committee.

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